Monday, May 11

Life, Lessons, and Love

I've been learning a lot about life lately. Don't take anything for granted. You never know when something is going to end so hold onto it as long as you can. People don't change, no matter how much you want them to. Your family are really the only people who will always be there for you. I know these are all cliche's but they are true. The most important thing I've learned though is that love is something that is truly amazing. Love can change your entire life. Being in love is the most wonderful thing in the world. Once you find love I would suggest that you do whatever you need to to keep it, forever. Because losing love is the worst feeling. Losing the one person who can make your entire day go from a -72 to a +63 with three words is not easy. Having to live everyday knowing that the only person who knows your darkest secrets is the one person you can't talk to kills. Going through life without your best friend sucks. Having to pretend that you're okay when really all you want to do is cry for the next 5 years is not something I would wish on anyone. So this is my advice to you: live everyday the best you can. Savor the moments you get to spend with the people you love. When you do find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with don't let anything stand in your way. Fight for what you believe in and for the love you share. In the end nothing else matters. Trust me when I say that.

2 comments:

  1. Hey! Can I be your blog buddy? LOL.
    Great blog!

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  2. Oh Debie,
    All of this is so very true! Being loved and then abandoned is a heartache that never totally heals :(
    I'm so grateful that you feel that way about your family - not everyone is so blessed.
    You'll come out "on top" and ever so much wiser. Remember that Mamma Ferrin loves you no matter what!

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